Here is the "equipment" list: *Note- I highly recommend these bags or something similar- they are easy to carry and you can see what you have.
- flashlights/battery powered lanterns
- dish soap (unused- I tossed my dishes in a bag and washed them at home)
- bug spray (note- we didn't need...I despise bug bites and snakes, which is part of why we camped now; also, it wasn't yet hot, the campground wasn't crowded, and there wasn't a two night minimum yet...you will find I am an "off season" kind of traveler)
- bath soap, shampoo, conditioner, towels (none used because we showered at home, something to be said about getting out of the shower in a heated bathroom when it is in the 40s)
- sheets- I brought a bottom sheet for each bed, then a bunch of comforters/blankets/sleeping bags/pillows
- lighter and newspaper for fires; candles for table (note- some parks require you buy wood there due to tree diseases)
- trash bags
- pans- brought my old school camping mess kits, one pot from my kitchen (you could do a tea kettle and a few pots and be fine), and random utensils (spatula, serving spoon, sharp knives); used plastic utensils and paper plates, hot cups for coffee and hot chocolate and Solo cups for bowls
- marshmallow roasters (yes, from Wal Mart)
- football
- chairs (I will never drag a chair to the beach, but find them to be essentials by the campfire)
- Kleenex
- space heaters (spoiled but loved it)
- paper towels and Clorox wipes
Food: I simplified my trip by pre- cooking the Sloppy Joe meat at home, so had that to heat up, served on potato rolls; and a can of soup for veggie boy; potato salad; cut up fruit; potato chips and pretzels; Brie and crackers; of course s'mores- marshmallows, graham crackers and Hershey Bars; bagels and cream cheese (toasted over fire); cereal and milk; juice boxes; water; hot chocolate mix; instant coffee packets; and snacks (just whatever you like- I went for portable, such as Oreos, animal crackers, trail mix and yogurt). Food fit into one medium sized cooler and one of those large bags. To the kids we cooked dinner over the campfire, to me I was able to enjoy the dinner without a ton of work outside! Tacos are another easy take and heat (believe me, I like the foil dinners and burgers too, but remember we got there at 5:45 on a Friday and needed something to be ready soon).
Had the car unpacked and everything put away in less than ten minutes...love it! I think many don't try camping because they aren't "camping people" but this isn't roughing it- worst part is walking 1 1/2 mins to a bathroom. The kids still had their phones and Ipods and such out by the end of the night (and could charge them in the cabin), but they did it all together vs. at home and in their rooms. They laughed and we laughed, and decided it was way more fun than "Awk Bowling" (that would be the first time we all did an outing together a few years ago, when we were trying to think of things to do to appeal to 8 year old boys and 13 year old girls...the girls later coined the term when reminiscing about how awkward it was because they didn't know each other and sat next to each other texting their friends about how awkward it was)- the girls actually had a chance to reconnect, because with sports and jobs they haven't seen as much of each other lately...now they sit next to each other cackling over the texts and Tweets they are sending, laughing at the jokes they don't want us to know about :). I <3 my blended family!